When I first came across the concept of narcissism in a spiritual context, I was startled. Narcissism, while often seen as just a personality flaw, can have a deeper, more dangerous spiritual dimension. I witnessed it in a close relative whose manipulative, controlling behavior tore apart relationships. The destruction caused by this spirit—because that’s what it is, a spirit of narcissism—was more than just emotional damage; it felt like there was something darker lurking beneath the surface. If you’ve dealt with someone like this, you probably know what I mean. This kind of behavior drains the life and joy out of relationships and leaves you feeling powerless.
If you’ve found yourself in a relationship—romantic, family, or even work-related—with someone who exhibits narcissistic traits, or if you struggle with these tendencies yourself, you might be dealing with more than just a personality issue. The spirit of narcissism is a powerful force of self-centeredness, manipulation, control, and deceit. It’s deeply rooted in pride, an unwillingness to repent, and a refusal to acknowledge God’s authority.
The good news? You can fight this through prayer and spiritual warfare, reclaiming your peace and the relationships that may have been damaged. Below is a powerful guide for praying against this spirit, rooted in the principles of deliverance prayer like those taught by Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries (MFM).
What is the Spirit of Narcissism?
The spirit of narcissism is a demonic force characterized by:
- Excessive pride and an inflated sense of self-importance
- Manipulation and controlling behavior
- Deception and gaslighting (making others question their reality)
- Lack of empathy or inability to understand or care about the feelings of others
- Desire for power and dominance in relationships
This spirit thrives on emotional abuse, causing significant damage to those around it. Narcissistic individuals often create an atmosphere of confusion, resentment, and helplessness. At its core, the spirit of narcissism is closely related to the spirit of Jezebel—a spirit of control, seduction, and manipulation.
Steps to Defeat the Spirit of Narcissism
1. Recognize the Presence of the Spirit
Whether you’re dealing with narcissism in yourself or someone else, the first step is to identify the traits and acknowledge that they are more than just psychological—they have spiritual roots. Narcissism often stems from pride, a sin that opens the door for demonic activity. Ask God to reveal if there’s any open door in your life or in the life of someone close to you.
Pray this:
“Father, in the name of Jesus, I ask that You expose every area of my life or the life of [name] that is influenced by the spirit of narcissism. Let every hidden motive, every hidden pride, and every manipulation be exposed by Your light.”
2. Repent and Renounce Pride
Pride is often the root of narcissism, and the Bible says God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6). If you sense that narcissism has crept into your life, start with humility and repentance. This breaks the stronghold of pride and opens the door for God’s healing and deliverance.
Pray this:
“Lord, I humble myself before You. I confess and repent of any pride, self-centeredness, or manipulation in my life. I renounce the spirit of pride and narcissism. Break its hold over me in Jesus’ name. I reject every spirit that seeks to control, deceive, and manipulate others.”
If praying for someone else, modify it:
“Father, I intercede for [name]. I stand against the spirit of narcissism operating in their life. I pray that You break every hold of pride, control, and manipulation, in the name of Jesus.”
3. Breaking the Stronghold Through Fasting and Prayer
The Bible says some spiritual forces can only be cast out through fasting and prayer (Mark 9:29). Engaging in a period of fasting amplifies your prayers and weakens the demonic stronghold. The spirit of narcissism often requires persistent warfare.
Commit to a period of fasting, whether it’s a 6 a.m. to 6 p.m. fast or a longer duration depending on the level of oppression you or the other person is facing.
4. Warfare Prayers Against the Spirit of Narcissism
Below are powerful warfare prayers designed to confront and defeat the spirit of narcissism, whether it’s in you or affecting someone else.
MFM-Style Warfare Prayer Against the Spirit of Narcissism
- Opening Prayer of Praise: Begin with praise and worship to acknowledge the power of God over all spirits.
- Confession of Sin:
“Lord, I confess any sin that has allowed the spirit of narcissism to enter. Cleanse me by the blood of Jesus and forgive me. I reject every spirit of pride, selfishness, and manipulation, in Jesus’ name.”
- Binding and Casting Out:
“Every spirit of narcissism, pride, and control operating in my life (or in the life of [name]), I bind you in the name of Jesus. I cast you out of my life by the power of the Holy Spirit! You have no place here. Holy Ghost fire, consume every demonic attachment of narcissism!”
- Breaking Generational Curses:
“I break every generational curse of pride, control, and narcissism in my bloodline, in Jesus’ name! Every ancestral spirit that has influenced narcissism in my family, I reject and cancel your influence over me and my descendants by the blood of Jesus!”
- Destroying Evil Thrones:
“Every evil throne of pride and narcissism established in my heart (or in the heart of [name]), be pulled down by the fire of God, in Jesus’ name! I overthrow every demonic authority controlling my emotions and thoughts!”
- Declaring Humility and Healing:
“I declare that I am clothed with humility and the mind of Christ. I reject all forms of self-exaltation and manipulation. Father, restore every relationship that has been broken by this spirit. Heal me from emotional wounds and free me from any soul ties with narcissistic individuals, in Jesus’ name.”
- Sealing with the Blood of Jesus:
“I seal my deliverance and freedom with the blood of Jesus. No spirit of narcissism or pride can re-enter my life, in Jesus’ mighty name!”
5. Regular Scripture Confession
Use the Word of God to solidify your victory over the spirit of narcissism. Meditate on and declare these scriptures:
- Proverbs 16:18 – “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”
- Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
- Galatians 5:16 – “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”
Speak these daily as part of your prayer routine to keep the spirit of narcissism at bay.
6. Cutting Off Emotional and Spiritual Ties
If you’ve been involved with a narcissist, it’s crucial to cut off any soul ties. Narcissists can create emotional bonds that are unhealthy and spiritually binding. Pray this prayer:
“In the name of Jesus, I cut off every ungodly soul tie created by the spirit of narcissism. I break free from all emotional, spiritual, and mental connections to [name]. By the blood of Jesus, I am free, and I reclaim my peace, joy, and emotional health!”
7. Maintaining Your Deliverance
Once free from the spirit of narcissism, it’s important to protect your deliverance:
- Stay humble: Pride is what opens the door to narcissism, so practice humility daily.
- Engage in regular prayer: Spiritual warfare isn’t a one-time event. Keep praying, especially during midnight prayer sessions.
- Guard your relationships: Be mindful of who you allow into your life and set healthy boundaries to avoid falling under the influence of controlling individuals.
Final Thoughts
The spirit of narcissism is deeply destructive, but with the right prayers, fasting, and reliance on the Holy Spirit, you can break free from its hold. Whether it’s operating in your life or someone close to you, persistent prayer and warfare—especially using MFM-style prayers—can restore peace and heal relationships. Stand firm in your authority as a child of God, and remember that with Christ, you have the victory over all spirits that seek to steal your joy and purpose.